28 June 2010

melangkah?


begini, saia cuma mau kasih sedikit. hm. saran..
bole dibilang pendapat.. jadi,

jangan baru melangkah, baru tanya TUHAN bener apa enggak,
tanya dulu, baru melangkah.. jangan uda salah langkah,
trus nyala''in Tuhan, padahal sebelum kita melangkah,
kita sama sekali gak tanya pendapatNya..
#justsay

love,

negativity



jadi intinya, jangan biarkan pikiran negatifmu menelan otak dan hatimu bulat''.. jangan biarkan mereka merajai hidupmu :)) #ngomongsendiri #sambilngaca

jadi, ditengah malam, saia yang berperang dengan kemellow-an saia memutuskan untuk mengupdate status di salah satu situs jejaring sosial..
hemph, yaaa.. the power of mind, kekuataan di balik pikiran, dan the power of feeling, kekuataan di balik perasaan yang masih labil, kadang itu yang paling bahaya, dibanding kekuataan yang tampak secara fisik.

perasaan dan pikiran kita yang masih labil, yang kadang suka berlarian secara liar dan tak terkendali, kadang yang menjerumuskan kita makin dalam dan dalam ketika kita menghadapi suatu hal.

bener gak?
misalnya aja nih..
simpel aja deh..
kita sms in si mantan yang ulang tahun..
tiba'' dia gak bales, pikiran liar kita pasti mikirnya, hedeeh..
belaguk banget ni manusia..
trus perasaan liar kita membawa kita masuk ke yang namanya kecewa..
padahal belom tentu dia belaguk,
bisa aja pulsanya abis, ato smsnya gak masuk..

gwe kemarin abis nonton toystory 3..
di film itu dikisahkan sekumpulan mainan yang uda lama gak dipakai si pemilik,
sampai pada satu titik si pemilik harus pisahin mana barang gak berguna, mana barang yang mau di bawa ke kuliahan, mana yang mau disimpen di loteng..
...
selengkapnya nonton langsung aja ya? :DD


yang mau gwe bahas disini adalah si Lotso, si beruang pink yang tampak dari luar sebagai sosok penyayang.. tapi sebenarnya dalamnya ia beruang yang kejam dan jahat..
dan di film ini, diungkap kenapa si Lotso jadi beruang yang kejam dan jahat..
dan ternyata si Lotso punya masa lalu yang cukup pahit.
ia 'ditinggal' oleh pemiliknya, daisy.
daisy kecil gak sadar kalo Lotso, beruang kesayangannya ketinggalan di taman ketika ia piknik.
daisy kecil tertidur, dan tanpa disengaja si Lotso ketinggalan..
jadi sebenernya si Lotso ini gak sengaja ketinggalan di taman, bukannya dibuang..
tapi pikiran dan perasaan si Lotso yang bilang kalau Lotso dibuang..
akhirnya jadilah ia sakit hati, dan berubah jadi kejam..

see? betapa kekuatan sebuah pikiran dan perasaan negatif dapat berakibat sangat fatal..
dan kadang, harus diakui, ketika kita menghadapi suatu masalah, pikiran dan perasaan negatif kita malahan bikin kita makin mellow, makin sakit ati, dan makin kecewa..

jadi, mulai sekarang..
kita sama sama belajar yuk,,
ngendaliin pikiran dan perasaan kita, supaya gak berlarian secara liar,
dan membuat hidup kita jadi dikendalikan sama mereka..
:D

avoid the negativity!

nb : gambar dicolong dari deviantart :)



If ...


If you woke up this morning with more health than illness,
you are more blessed than the million who won't survive the week.

If you have never experienced the danger of battle,
the loneliness of imprisonment,
the agony of torture or the pangs of starvation,
you are ahead of 20 million people around the world.

If you attend a church meeting without fear of harassment,
arrest, torture, or death,
you are more blessed than almost three billion people in the world.

If you have food in your refrigerator,
clothes on your back,
a roof over your head and a place to sleep,
you are richer than 75% of this world.

If you have money in the bank,
in your wallet, and spare change
in a dish someplace, you are among
the top 8% of the world's wealthy.

If your parents are still married and alive,
you are very rare,
especially in the United States.

If you hold up your head with a smile
on your face and are truly thankful,
you are blessed because the majority can,
but most do not.

If you can hold someone's hand, hug them
or even touch them on the shoulder,
you are blessed because you can
offer God's healing touch.

If you can read this message,
you are more blessed than over
two billion people in the world
that cannot read anything at all.

You are so blessed in ways
you may never even know.

If you are feeling blessed, repay the blessings bestowed unto you and do something for others.

A blessing cannot be kept. If it stops with you, then the blessing will disappear. The blessing will only keep working if it is continuously passed around. If you are a recipient of a blessing, keep the blessing working by being the source of blessing to other people.


ps : image was stolen from deviantart :)

this isnt goodbye..

“mengapa kita bertemu?
Bila akhirnya dipisahkan?
Mengapa kita berjumpa?
Bila akhirnya dijauhkan?”

Seseorang pernah bilang gini “bukan perpisahan yang kutangisi, tapi pertemuan yang kusesali”..
Well.. jujur selama beberapa menit gwe merenung berusaha untuk memahami kata demi kata dari kalimat tersebut..

Dan setelah gwe tanya beberapa orang, mereka serempak berpendapat bahwa maksud kalimat itu, lebih baik gak pernah ketemu sama sekali, daripada harus berpisah nantinya..
Dan hati nurani gwe mulai bergejolak tanda gak setuju sama kalimat di atas, kenapa?
Karena menurut gwe, perpisahan itu suatu kepastian, suatu yang pasti bakal terjadi, setelah adanya pertemuan..
dan yang jadi soal adalah soal, waktu.
Waktu yang bisa menjawab kapan kita bakal berpisah..

dan sadly, kali ini gwe harus berpisah sama #13-16A..
sedihhh karena mereka adalah temen'' pertama gwe sejak status gwe berubah jadi mahasiswi..
dan semester depan kita semua bakal berpisah, masuk ke jurusan masing''..

hemphh..
ini bareng dosen jerman-jepang yang gantengnya ajubilah.. hihii.. :D

kalo ini bareng dosen gwe, pak pulo, yang pernah gwe ceritain disini

"This isn't goodbye
Even as I watch you leave
This isn't goodbye
I swear I won't cry
Even as tears fill my eyes
I swear I won't cry"
(what makes a man-westlife)

15 June 2010

my personality

i just tried this test.. and here's the result

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About the ESFP
Expert Quotes & Links

"For the ESFP, the entire world is a stage. They love to be the center of attention and perform for people. They're constantly putting on a show for others to entertain them and make them happy. They enjoy stimulating other people's senses, and are extremely good at it. They would love nothing more than for life to be a continual party, in which they play the role of the fun-loving host."
- Portrait of an ESFP (The Pesonality Page)

"They love the excitement of playing to an audience, and they try to generate a sense of "showtime" wherever they are. Performers are not comfortable being alone most of the time..."
"outgoing, social, group oriented, dislikes science fiction, does not like to be alone"
- Jung Type Descriptions (ESFP) (similarminds.com)
"ESFP like action and excitement, and are able to link together people and resources. Because they accept and deal with people as they are, they are able to understand what is necessary in order to motivate them to get jobs done. They prefer a work setting that is lively, action oriented, and harmonious."
- ESFP - The Joker (Lifexplore)

"The dominant function of ESFPs (Extraverted Sensing) is concerned with the reality that is perceived through the senses. This type's prime directive is to examine the tangible through taste, touch, sight, feeling and hearing. ESFPs' need for new experiences surely results from this function."
- ESFP Profile (TypeLogic)


Click to view my Personality Profile page

Verbal/Linguistic Intelligence


People with Linguistic intelligence love and are talented with words. They enjoy reading, writing and learning languages. They have an ability to teach and explain things to others. They learn best by reading, taking notes and going to lectures.

Common Characteristics
  • Notices grammatical mistakes
  • Often speaks of what they have read
  • Likes to use "fancy" words
  • Loves word games
  • Cherishes their book collection
  • Easily remembers quotes and famous sayings
  • Likes puns and rhymes
  • Enjoys writing
  • Enjoys foreign language
  • Always enjoyed English class
Career Matches
  • Writer (any type)
  • Editor
  • Public Speaker
  • Politician
  • Preacher
  • Teacher
  • Journalist
  • Broadcaster
  • English / Writing Tutor
  • Actor / Actress






04 June 2010

what a thursday :)

hai blog.. hai bloggers, hai readers..
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welcome junee!! setelah berbulan bulan berkutat dengan project kuliah yang agak mematikan..
kamis kemaren akhir dari segalanya.. haha.. akhirnya presentasi selesai..
dan luckily, kelompok gwe dapet urutan pertama.. yeah, the lucky number one..
pas pertama kali diundi dapet urutan pertama si hopeless dan kacau abis..
tapi ternyata asik juga dapet giliran pertama, legaaa duluann..
:D
kelompok laen masih kalang kabut sama projectnya, kelompok gwe bisa berleha-leha :D http://www.emocutez.com

dan yaah, setelah presentasi menegangkan kemarin itu, akhirnyaaa gwe sama yang laen memutuskan untuk berleha leha menghabiskan siang hari di FX, sambil nonton..
sex and the city..
sebenernyaa si gwe mau nonton prince of persia, tapi apa mau dikataa..
gwe kalah suaraa :(
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temen temen gwe pada mau sex and the city.. yasuda deh.. ikhlas..
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trus trus malemnya.. janjian ketemuan sama my sistersss in Christ.. sisters' dinner :D
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